This checklist is designed for both patients undergoing treatment and their friends and family providing support:
For Individuals Undergoing Treatment:
- Communicate Your Needs:
- ☑ Clearly communicate your emotional needs to friends and family.
- ☑ Express how they can best provide support, whether it’s through active listening, practical assistance, or companionship.
- Join a Support Group:
- ☑ Explore local or online breast cancer support groups.
- ☑ Attend support group meetings or forums to connect with others who share similar experiences.
- Seek Professional Support:
- ☑ Consider scheduling regular sessions with a Therapist or Counsellor.
- ☑ Discuss your Fears and Concerns , your emotional well-being and any coping strategies during treatment.
- Lean on Friends and Family:
- ☑ Share your thoughts and feelings with loved ones.
- ☑ Accept help when offered especially if you have to go through extensive treatment like Chemotherapy and or Surgery – communicate specific needs where help may be needed.
- Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques:
- ☑ Practice mindfulness, meditation, or relaxation exercises regularly.
- ☑ Explore any resources or classes. There are many free classes on YouTube and a number of Paid Apps that you can download on your phone.
- Express Yourself Creatively:
- ☑ Engage in creative outlets like writing, art, or music, journaling, blogging .
- ☑ Use creative expression as a way to cope with emotions.
For Friends and Family Providing Support:
- Be a Good Listener:
- ☑ Listen empathetically without judgement.
- ☑ Allow the individual undergoing treatment to express their feelings openly without judgement.
- Educate Yourself:
- ☑ Learn as much as you can about about breast cancer and treatment options.
- ☑ Be informed to better understand and support your loved one.
- Accompany to Appointments:
- ☑ Offer to accompany your loved one to their various medical appointments.
- ☑ Provide a supportive and encouraging presence during consultations.
- Assist with Practical Matters:
- ☑ Offer help with daily tasks, such as grocery shopping, meal preparation, or household chores.
- ☑ Assist with any practical matters to alleviate stress
- Respect Their Emotions:
- ☑ Understand that emotions may fluctuate during treatment.
- ☑ Provide support without judgement and be patient.
- Check-In Regularly:
- ☑ Regularly check in on your loved one’s emotional well-being.
- ☑ Ask how they’re feeling and if they need additional support.
- Encourage Self-Care:
- ☑ Encourage your loved one to prioritize self-care.
- ☑ Suggest activities they enjoy for relaxation and well-being.